Write Your Own Vows
Write your own
vows, your way.
Seven prompts. No rules. This tool walks you through the things worth saying — one question at a time — and then assembles everything into a draft you can take from here.
01 — The Origin Story
Where did this begin?
Not the first date. The moment you knew something had shifted. The detail you still remember even though it seemed small at the time.
"I knew something was different when …"
02 — What You Actually See
What do you know about this person that most people don't?
The version of them that only you get to see. The quality that doesn't show up on Instagram. The thing that makes you trust them more than you trust most people.
"What I see in you, that most people miss, is …"
03 — How You've Changed
Who were you before, and what shifted?
This is not about being fixed. It is about what opened up. The thing you are more capable of now because of being with this person.
"Before you, I was someone who …"
04 — The Promises
What will you actually do?
Skip the abstract. What specific, honest promises can you make? The ones that name the real shape of your life together.
"What I promise you, in the most specific terms I can manage, is …"
05 — What You're Looking Forward To
What does your future together look like from where you're standing?
Not the fantasy version — the actual version. The ordinary things you want to keep doing. The Tuesday evenings as much as the adventures.
"When I think about what's ahead, what I actually picture is …"
06 — The Thing You Almost Didn't Say
What would you regret leaving out?
The moment you have never quite found the words for. The thing that feels almost too true to say out loud.
"There's something I've been meaning to tell you …"
07 — The Last Line
How do you want to close?
The sentence that lands. The one that the room will feel. What is the last thing you want to say before you say "I do"?
"So here, in front of everyone who matters …"
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Your vows, assembled.
This is your first draft. Edit, cut, keep what sounds like you.